What is Cock Control?

While the answer to what cock control is seems very simple and obvious to some, it can be quite confusing to others. They can’t really fathom what it is. They wonder about it, are curious. I’ve explained it individually more times than I can count. That’s why I am finally writing it down. That way, everyone will know what we are talking about. Follow along with me to find the answers to some of your cock control questions.

While the term “cock control” seems self-explanatory, the problem is, that it’s not quite that simple. Cock control can be many different things, especially when handled in the many different ways possible. It isn’t always as obvious as one might think, either. There are a wide variety of ways to participate in a cock control relationship. However, it seems to me, there are a couple ways that are less vague and most often what someone is looking for in cock control.

“But, I Don’t Need Cock Control”

If the things I talk about here don’t sound like you, that doesn’t mean you’re in the wrong place! After all, a fetish is as different as there are the number of people interested in it. Don’t believe for a moment that if you aren’t interested in tease and denial or guided masturbation instructions, cock control isn’t for you. Even if you are not into hardcore cock control, you still might need your cock controlled by a Femdom Mistress.

Teased or Denied, We Decide

I’m going to start with tease and denial.

Sometimes this is just a tease and you aren’t denied an orgasm at the end. Other times, it is a total orgasm denial. Either way, this is a great form of control. What could be more controlling to a man’s cock than it aching to cum after a long, sensuous tease than to have a woman say no? Or perhaps maybe? Perhaps even yes, but only on her terms. She might allow you to cum, but you have to ruin the orgasm. That’s the fun and the cock control in this one. Fun for the Mistress, anyway.

Your dick is teased as I bend over, letting my skirt slide up the backs of my soft thighs, almost to my ass. You hold your breath waiting to see panties or maybe I’m just not wearing any. How is that for a tease? Your cock is mine then. As it gets harder, teasing you puts me in control. I can show you what you’re aching to see or just stand back up. Hmm, I think I will go get myself something cold to drink. I’m going to leave you there just wanting and needing.

This is a tease and denial cock control session. You never know if the tease is going to continue. If I will wrap my hand around your cock and stroke it with my slender fingers. Maybe I will pump your dick until you cum. I might reach towards you, causing you to inhale with anticipation. You really do think I’m going to touch you? Just to increase my amusement, I will brush your cock with my fingers and then pull away, leaving you unsatisfied.

See how simple controlling your cock is?

Stroke Only When I Say

Now, there is also the guided masturbation. This pretty much is a sure thing for cumming but just how you get there, well your Mistress chooses the road you travel. Maybe it will be just exactly what you love, maybe not. This guided masturbation form of cock control.

I tell you to stroke for me and this can last for a few minutes or a few hours. Maybe you won’t be allowed to use the hand you like to use. Perhaps you can only stroke when your Mistress says “go” and you must stop on her command. Some Mistresses like to play stroking games with cards or dice to determine just how many strokes you get. Others manipulate you into revealing your secrets in order to get permission to stroke. Quite the naughty game of truth or dare right?

There are even Mistresses who will guide you by just the speed of their voice, making you stroke in rhythm, then stop and wait. This can lead to repeated edging or just allowing you to cum fast and hard. Either way, the Mistress guiding you is the one in control of your cock.

All Locked Up for Cock Control

Last but certainly not least is the very obvious cock control, the kind where you don’t get to touch your cock at all. Extreme cock control can be used for short or long periods of time. Not everyone who gets their cock put in a chastity cage is without release for months. Sometimes it’s fun just to lock you up for one session. Hours of teasing and taunting while your cock is trapped in chastity. That is ultimate control of your cock.

Your Mistress could do anything she wanted to get you excited and you’d have to just beg for release rather than touch yourself. Of course, this is a two-pronged type of control, as once you are locked up (which is extreme cock control in and of itself), you also won’t know when she plans to release you! What Mistress wouldn’t love to dangle the key in front of your face and then announce she was going shopping and would be back later as she dropped it in her purse? 

Simply put, cock control is anything that makes you acutely aware that your cock is no longer yours… it’s ours!

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