Learning The Necessary Discipline For Extreme Cock Control
by Ms. Ryan of www.alphafemdomphonesex.com
Although cock control is a wonderful way to show your submission to your Mistress, the truth is that it's not for everyone. It takes a certain type of man to be able to submit to this kind of control and thrive under it.
Don't get me wrong, though. It's not something that's innate. The desire to please is, certainly, but the self-discipline that it requires can be taught. All you need is a Femdom who is willing to train you.
Some Masturbatrices, like me, specialize in the fine art of training cock control slaves. And one of the things that I have learned while training these kinds of submissives is that the first thing that must be taught is mental discipline. Without that foundation, any attempt to control a man's cock will inevitably fail.
The first thing you'll need to do is learn to ignore--or at the very least, minimize--the instinct to follow the desires of your cock, regardless of the cost. Even without a Mistress who wants to control your cock, you'll find that blindly following that instinct will get you in plenty of trouble...and often.
A Masturbatrix Will Hold You Accountable
But since such things are easier said than done, having a Mistress who will hold you accountable for what you do will certainly make learning to separate your actions under orgasm control/denial from your desire to stroke much easier. Or if not "easier," it will at least remove the responsibility of policing your actions from you and place that responsibility on someone who is more able to manage it.
Once you have learned that you do not always have to give in to the demands of your cock, you can take the next step. (It may require longer than you might first expect, though, simply because divorcing actions from instinct is often harder than you might believe.) And the next step is to start learning to take that frustrated sexual energy and divert it into something else. Something that is not begging your Mistress to let you cum every ten minutes, that is.
This step is actually easier to manage than the first one. Once you've convinced your mind that you need not give in to your body's every demand, sublimating sexual desire and letting it fuel something else is comparatively simple. And what's the best thing you can sublimate that desire into, you ask? Why, pleasing your Mistress, of course.
It's Mistress's Cock, Not Yours
You'll eventually come to view your cock as your Mistress's cock, rather than as your own. It's attached to your body, sure, but you can wear someone else's shoes and that still doesn't make them yours, yes? It's the same principle with your cock. So if the cock that is attached to you (but belongs to your Mistress) starts demanding attention, all you have to do is turn your attention instead to your Mistress (since you are hers, anyway). Taking your sexual energy and turning it into energy to please *her* instead of *yourself* is your ultimate goal. And once you've learned to do that, then you've learned all the self-discipline you can possibly need to be the perfectly obedient cock control slave you were always meant to be. Now that's extreme cock control.
Tease and Denial Phone Sex at Extreme Cock Control
Our orgasm denial phone sex sessions will make you feel powerless. Your Mistress will instruct you and you will obey her every wish. Be brought to the brink of orgasm over and over again, each time denied for her pleasure. After all, this isn't about you, it's about pleasing your Mistress. And when she finally lets you come, you will explode with pleasure and desire.
Of course, there's no guarantee when that might be. Your cock control session may last for hours or even days. Think you can't hold on for that long? Don't worry. Our Mistresses will train you to be a good little submissive boy.
For hardcore cock control, try our chastity phone sex training sessions. Are you ready to try on a chastity belt and throw away the key? Our Mistresses will have you quivering in delight and agony. Learn about what chastity device will suit you best and then get teased and denied to your heart's content!
On the flip side, a forced orgasm phone sex session will make you come even if you don't want to! Giving control of your cock to your Mistress means that anything she wants, you do. So if she wants you to come immediately, then you had better make it happen! Imagine the exquisite pleasure and pain of being coerced to come over and over again for your Mistress.
Our Mistresses will take control of your cock and never look back. You will be at their mercy and you will love every moment of it. But here at Extreme Cock Control we believe that guided masturbation and cock control are ways to explore and push the boundaries of your sexual limits. Our Mistresses take the time to develop a personal relationship with you in order to best help you along this sexual journey. We believe in providing an experience that is sensual and erotic; one that awakens your senses and shakes you to your core. Giving over control of your cock to another is an experience that will have you begging for more. When you hand over control, all that is left is pure pleasure. And that's what you will find here at Extreme Cock Control.